Own Your Narrative Coaching

Create the change you seek in your career & life,
confidently and unapologetically.

Hi, I’m Lila – I'm so glad you're here!I’m passionate about empowering young professionals to build confidence, gain clarity, and find true fulfillment in their careers. I believe that when we experience fulfillment in our work, it positively impacts every other aspect of our lives.Take a moment to explore more about me, my coaching philosophy, and hear what my clients have to say below.

Who This Serves

  • Do you want to make a big change in your life and have a goal you want to achieve?

  • Do you feel a lack of confidence that you can make this change, either in your personal or professional life?

  • Do you notice life happening to you, instead of you controlling your outcomes?

  • Do you find yourself always comparing yourself to others?

  • Are you feeling stuck and know you can't make this change alone?

  • Have you found yourself self-sabotaging and telling yourself stories that in reality, may not be true?

  • Do you have a hard time holding yourself accountable from achieving your goals?

I've been there...and I get it.

Hi, I'm Lila.At different points throughout my twenties and early thirties, I found myself plateauing in my career and relationships. This left me unconfident in myself and my potential, and truly unfulfilled.The status quo wasn't the narrative I wanted for myself.So - I decided to get to know myself deeply, hold myself accountable, and enlist the support of coaches to confidently make changes and own them.Over the last five years, I have:- Pivoted roles & companies to grow my career in tech
- Ended an unhealthy relationship
- Moved across the world for a new work opportunity
- Dated, and began a new relationship with my partner
- Pivoted to becoming a coach full-time and support others along their journeyNow, as a Coach, I want to help you confidently own your narrative.

This is for you if you:

  • Desire a change in your life, and would like coaching along the journey

  • Are keen to learn more about yourself in a vulnerable and open way and can share with a coach

  • Want to develop more confidence in yourself

  • Are willing to be "comfortable with the uncomfortable" and are willing to leave your "comfort zone" behind

  • Have an idea of the steps you could take, but find it hard to hold yourself accountable

This is not for you if you:

  • Don't want to make a realistic change in your life

  • Aren't willing to do the deep (and sometimes uncomfortable) self-discovery work

  • Aren't willing to put in the time into making the changes in your life

  • Want to only receive advice and mentorship from someone

  • Are seeking therapy instead of coaching (Therapy is different from coaching but you can do both at the same time!)

Let's Create a Customized Coaching Experience for You

Below is a sample of what I offer my coaching clients:

  • 90-minute deep discovery session to take inventory of where you are today and where you want to go

  • Full Circle Exercise to understand where your baseline is for satisfaction of the various areas of your life

  • Outline your goals and timeline, and create an operating rhythm

  • Uncover your core values and your saboteurs through exercises and reflection

  • Create new perspectives as you develop more confidence and get closer to your goal

  • Process what you're noticing as you make this change & tap into your intuition

  • Redefine how you're using your "free time" as you work towards your goal

  • Reignite and activate your community to support you along your journey

  • Brainstorm and co-create a plan with action items and an accountability strategy to reach your goal

  • (Career Related) Create a customized plan to your job search and criteria, and an accountability plan to land your next role

Based on your goals, your desired timeline, and your budget, we can work on a customized 3-6 month package that suits your needs.Some questions to consider:

  • Do I have the time? It's important that you are ready to lean in with me, and have the time to schedule regular sessions.

  • Do I have the budget? It's important that you are ready to invest in yourself for this venture with a coach.

  • Am I ready? It's important that you are ready to invest in yourself so you can confidently make the change you seek to own that beautiful narrative of yours.

Be Your Own Best Advocate & Confidently Own Your Narrative

Are you ready to confidently own your narrative, and work together?

My name is Lila Cantor, and I'm based in San Francisco Bay Area! As a Certified Coach specializing in confidence and accountability, I work in a virtual capacity with my 1:1 clients, and offer workshops both in-person and virtually.
CPCC (Certified Professional Co-Active Coach)
ACC (International Coach Federation Associate Certified Coach)